I forgot to mention...

Haley (aka Auntie Haley) came by for a visit tonight. She's leaving tomorrow (err, today) for a trip to England! I'm so excited for her; I know she'll have a great time. Here's a shot of her & her Jonny Boy this evening.

Have fun & be safe, Auntie Haley! Bring me something English! LOL

Thank you, Dr. Ferber

As I mentioned in this post, ever since Jonathan was tiny we've rocked him to sleep. Which, while nice for all of us (Daddy too), it wasn't the best idea. Each night, you'd have to get him to sleep & try laying him down; hoping against hope that he didn't wake up. If he did, really the only option was to start over. We'd been talking for awhile about trying to find a method that would work for us to get him to fall asleep on his own. I picked up a few books, one of which being Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems by Dr. Richard Ferber, M.D. I'd heard of this method before, but always thought it involved just leaving your child in his/her room to cry until he fell asleep. I didn't really want to do that. After talking with my friend, Lisa, who gave me some more information, I decided to read the book.

Basically it breaks it down into different techniques, based on your child's needs. Jonathan's "problem" is/was "sleep associations"; he needed us to rock him to sleep. In Jonathan's case, the method was to set up a bedtime routine so that it would be come a soothing time & one to look forward to. Then, you put them in bed & leave. Yes, he cried, but I went back into his room in increasing intervals. First night... 3 min, then 5, then 10, etc. and it increased a little each night. The first 3 nights I only had to go in once to comfort him and then he fell asleep on his own. Tonight..... he didn't cry AT ALL! I'm so thankful about this! I'm hoping that it will continue from here on out. Once he's going to bed easily on his own for a while, then we'll work on moving his bedtime down to a reasonable hour. Right now it's around 11pm, which is way too late.

Here is the bedtime routine that we're doing right now:

*Change diaper
*Put on Johnson's Bedtime Lotion and sing Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star
*Put on pajamas
*Read "Pajama Time" by Sandra Boynton
*Read "Goodnight Moon" by Margaret Wise Brown
*Turn out light
*Go to bed

It's working for us right now, though I may add to it in the future. Do you have a bedtime routine for your kid(s)? What do y'all do?

All this talk about bedtime is making me sleepy....

Do you remember this?

As if I don't spend enough time on the computer reading blogs, I have a new one that I love; Slice of Pink. I found this on her blog this morning... MASH. Do you remember this game? Oh I used to play this all the time. My results this morning.... I'll marry Joshua Jackson, live in a shack in Boston, drive a blue mercedes, be a teacher & have one child. Interesting. And yes... I did put Chris' name in the blocks, the first one so you know! So, play the game & post a comment with your results!

In other news.... I lost another 1.6 pounds this week! I reached my 1st 10% goal! I was so excited because my friend Jennifer got her 10% too so we were able to celebrate together. I'm so thankful that I have her there with me; it's definitely helping me to have a friend to go with. As my reward for reaching my first goal I get to have a mani-pedi; but I'm not sure when I'm going yet. Tomorrow I'm scrapping with the girls again. This time we're going to Scrap Chic Boutique in Decatur. Rebecca has been chosen to be on the Design Team there, and we're all so excited for her!

Well, Jonathan should be getting up any minute, so I'd better get going....

"I Just Don't Know What to Do With Myself"

Do you know that song? The only reason I know it is from the movie My Best Friend's Wedding.

Anyway, that's where I'm at today. My mom has been asking for a while for Jonathan to come stay with her a couple of days. So yesterday, she & Dad came by for a visit... and took Jonathan home with them.

They left around 4:30 or so, and for the rest of the evening I felt restless; like I should be doing something, or chasing someone. It was really weird being her without that little redheaded boy. But it was also nice being here, just Chris and I. We didn't really do anything for Valentine's Day, so we grilled a steak (yum!) and Chris had mushrooms & onions,, which he loves.

I went through a few "phases" last night: 1) Restless, as I said above. 2) Exhausted. The idea of an entire night's sleep without interruptions made me so tired. And 3) Missing him like crazy. I was trying to get to sleep last night & I was lying there thinking about Jonathan & how much I missed him. I've been re-reading one of my favorite books, "Pretense", and the part I'm at now is very heart wrenching. I won't tell what it is, in case anyone decides to read it, but it affected me like never before & left me feeling very grateful for my family & friends.

Anyway... I have the whole day to myself! I've been at a loss as to what to do, it's been so long since I've had a day with no plans. I did call & make plans to have lunch with a former coworker today. She's about to become a grandmother for the first time so I wanted to take her a little gift. I made her a picture frame Saturday; I need to take a picture & post it. After lunch I'm not entirely sure what I'll do. I may run to Babies-R-Us & pick up a couple of things. I also have a few other errands to run, so that may be what I end up doing. Nothing too exciting.

I'm really looking forward to tonight though. My mom's group is having a Mom's Night Out at Johnny's Pizza. It's trivia night there, so it should be a lot of fun.

Well, I think I'll sign off now. Enjoy your day! I know I will. ;o)

Ha!

Jonathan wanted to play with Chris' dad's glasses today, so he put them on him. It was just too funny; I had to snap a couple of pics.

McDreamy it is then....

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another blast from the past

I love going back & looking at pictures from a year ago. I'm amazed everytime at how much he's grown.



I lost another 1.6 pounds this week! I'm only one pound away from my first 10% goal!!! My friend who I go to meetings with reached her 10% today but couldn't stay for the meeting; so hopefully we'll get to celebrate together next week.